Slings and Returning to Work
Being a working mother is reality for many mums today, and leaving your baby in day care for the first time after maternity leave can be a source of anxiety. But baby slings can be a great way to ensure the transition into daycare goes smoothly, and give you the confidence to return to work, in the knowledge that your baby will adjust with ease.
Many slings, such as mei tais, ring slings and wraps, are adjustable so they can be used by another carer of a different body shape. This means that the baby can take their sling to daycare, and their carer can use it with them. They can have the familiar fabric wrapped snugly around them, which will still have your own familiar scent on it, like a favourite t shirt. Many advice columns suggest leaving your baby with a familiar item to remind them of home, the sling is a perfect choice for this!
Yes, babies love to be held, but it doesn't always have to be mum! The natural rhythm of a carer's walk, combined with the restful sound of their heartbeat is instantly soothing, and if a baby has become accustomed to using a sling with you, your carer can use the sling with your baby and soothe them the same way you do.
A good carer should be able to meet your requirements when it comes to how you want your baby to be cared for. When you are choosing a carer, talk to them about how they will settle the baby if she starts to cry, and ask them to use the sling. Nothing can give you a stronger sense of relief and trust in your baby's carer, than when you see your baby snuggled close to their heart in the sling. When I attended a breastfeeding conference recently, I returned to find my daughter asleep nestled in the sling, in the carer's arms. I wanted to cry with happiness and even give the carer a hug, I was so glad to see my daughter so content.
Don't forget to show your carer how to use the sling! Not all carriers are intuitive, and if your carer doesn't know how to use it, it could be used in a dangerous way, or left unused in a corner. Choose a time when you both have plenty of time to practice. The first morning of work, when the carer is organising other children's arrivals, and you are in a hurry, is not the best time for a crash course in babywearing.
Slings are also a great way to reconnect with your child after work. It gives you a chance to have plenty of skin to skin contact, and can help you both relax. Tea – time is also a classic tired time for babies, and when you have been working all day and still have the evening meal to prepare, you can feel torn between the household chores and giving time and attention to your baby. Using a sling can give you the cuddles you both need, whilst allowing you to get other necessary tasks done.